


The big dark
A Memoir Of Survival, Silence, And Finally, A Voice
Pamela Elaine Telford

About The Book
THE BIG DARK
A Memoir of Survival, Silence, and Finally, a Voice
For over thirty years, she smiled through the pain. A devoted wife, a mother, a professional—and a prisoner of emotional, psychological, and covert domestic abuse. On the outside, she was the picture of resilience. Behind closed doors, she was slowly disappearing.
In The Big Dark, Pam shatters the silence with a breathtakingly raw and unflinchingly honest account of a life entangled with a man who wore the mask of a charming hero—and hid the soul of a manipulative narcissist. From love bombing to gaslighting, from military moves to isolation, from silent screams to loaded threats, this is the anatomy of a trauma bond—and the story of a woman who broke it.
Told with searing clarity, grace, and grit, The Big Dark is more than a memoir. It is a lifeline. A reckoning. A reclamation.
If you’ve ever questioned your reality, minimized your pain, or stayed silent to keep the peace—this book is for you.



About The Author
Pamela Elaine Telford
Pam Telford, RDH, has served others for over four decades—as a dental hygienist, high school science teacher, and coach. A mother of three and proud grandmother of two, she was born and raised in Yakima Valley, Washington. The Big Dark is her raw and courageous account of surviving over thirty years of covert emotional abuse. With unflinching honesty, Pam shares her journey from silence to self-worth, offering a powerful message of healing, resilience, and hope
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"From the shadows of silence to
the strength of self-expression,
The Big Dark is a powerful journey of resilience,
truth, and reclaiming one’s voice."


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